Men who give up dating
If he gives her HIS number, it could be seen as one way of weeding out the women who aren’t really interested.If she does call, he could then presume that she has a high interest level in him.
The last week or so, I posted an article about reasons why men may choose to give you their number and not ask you for theirs.You are tired of trying different shoes that don’t fit or don’t look right to you, but you also enjoyed the experience of going through different shoes, seeing what’s out there, and eventually finding the right pair.I realize that dating and shoe shopping are not the same, but there are similarities, and if you can look at dating at least a little bit more like shoe shopping and try to enjoy the process of learning more about other people and also about yourself – what you like, what you don’t like, what turns you on and what annoys you in people, etc., you are much more likely to not be frustrated with dating and to not think of giving up.Every now and then I meet a guy or a woman who says that they are ready to completely give up on dating and relationships, and that meeting people and going out on dates is simply not worth the effort.Ironically, this happens more to the more attractive women than anyone else, and the reason is usually the same – they have more experiences meeting and dating, and their multiple, disappointing relationships lead to all kinds of emotional issues and a total dating frustration in general.It’s not a bad thing or a good thing – it’s just a normal part of life.
The fact that some people turned out to marry their first and only or a high school sweetheart is wonderful, but you can’t measure yourself that way and compare yourself to them.
Because the very attractive women get more attention from men, are asked out more often and end up dating different guys more often, they also have more negative experiences with men.
Surely, if you lost someone you were really in love with, even one break up can feel like life has betrayed you and there is no point in trying to meet someone special again, as it will lead to terrible pain again.
They are not the rule but the exception – a rare exception.
Everyone has their own path, their own circumstances, their own goals and preferences when it comes to dating and relationships.
And let’s be honest – can you really completely give up hope on finding that special chemistry?